By: SBI Malaysia
We met at KLCC to break fast of Ramadan. Since the restaurant at first we entered was not suited to us, we took LRT and went to Kampong Baru. A lot of people were already sitting in the food stalls caused us hard to find a place to sit. At last we were able to secure a table for two person’s seats.
As background, she told me that her parents and relatives live in Penang. Two of her brothers are the ‘datuks’ there. All her cousins are mostly lawyers and doctors. Her daughter age 23 is pursuing a master medical degree in Italy. She is sent there by USM because she was formerly one of the best students of the university.
Then we started chatting further. She formerly was a practicing lawyer graduated from UiTM Shah Alam, somewhere around 1980’s. She then married a Lebanese and already 25 years as husband and wife. But the husband then is in Mecca working as imam.
She told me whenever her husband come back to Malaysia, she would feel uneasy and shattering the whole body. She really dislikes him. Her husband when come back to Malaysia only needs sex with her. He does not bother whether she is satisfied, like it or not. Always tears come down through her eyes whenever her husband makes love with her.
When having sex her husband is too harsh cum wild. If say, he starts sex with her by 10pm, the sex episode would only end up the next morning or at the earliest by 3.00am. Whether she satisfies or not he does not bother as long as his desire is released and fulfilled.
She prefers if her husband divorce her at any time. She could not stand the irritating sex and hassle anymore. When asked how her husband satisfy himself when away from her for quite sometime? She said, her husband might practise ‘mutaah’. Mutaah is a practice whereby a man can just ask the lady to be his wife, and if she said Okayed, they will act like husband and wife normally for short while. The mutaah wife can be left at any time the husband wish.
She further said that she had stayed in Mecca for few times of accompanying her husband there. To her, staying in Mecca really like hell. She could not go out without her husband. If wanted to go for picnic, only can go at night.
She could not wipe dirt in front of her flat without wearing the tudung or ‘purdah.’ Other wise neighbors around especially to women she would be considered as a slut or a prostitute.
The Arab ladies whenever they mingle would only talk to their friends about sex with their husbands. They do not know much about the world outside affairs. Yeah, they only interested what type of pills to be used by their husbands to increase sex desires, especially Viagra.
She then asked me whether I know that why most Arab ladies still virgin when getting married? I then asked her back, I do not know, anyhow why? She said because in Arab countries the men are normal to sodomize their virgin ladies and even their own sisters! And most of these Arab ladies like to be sodomized by the men whether ‘muhrims’ or not.
These Arab ladies also normally eat a lot. If in Malaysia, a portion man eats, the ladies would consume food five times than him! They also like to eat meat that still blood could be seen on it or oozed out. Their characters also look harsh. That is why sometime we have read a maid from Indonesia or the Philippines have been treated unfairly by the Arab’s couple, particularly in Saudi Arabia.
By 10.00 we left Kampong Baru food stall and made our way home respectively. She would be fetched by her cousins at KL Sentral.