Prophet Mohamed once said, "the really brave man is not the one who had fought fiercely and achieved excellent victory in the battle of war, but someone who could control his anger." In life, we have to be aware and alerted with people who are really and sincerely patient. Nobly, patience could solve many problems and reducing or eluding additional damages.
In career, usually we are in the right paths, while most of our superiors are in the wrong paths. To prove who are right or wrong, could invite any humanitarian researchers to hypothesize and confirm.
In career and political involvements, people always like to see us be in the wrong paths and principles which they could tolerate. If you really an honest and a principle person you will be end up no where particulalrly in the materialistic environment.
To me, we should virtually respect persons who are knowledgeable, believable, and tawa'qal to Allah. However, some naive who do not know how to respect and appreciate such noble persons. They are wholly materialists. What in their minds are materials and money. To them money could furnish them anything and everything, even happiness! Is this conceptualization true? Let us think
The Regent of Japan even very powerful and rich, could not produce a son to replace him later, except a daughter. If he became a Muslim, surely he could marry another lady in order to have a son. See, how beautiful and perfect Islam is for the followers. But, again the Japanese Constitution would not permit a Muslim to become its Emperor. Why people have to narrow their life? In Islam, there are so many ways to solve the family and social problems. Whatever comes from Allah has its own 'hikmah.' At the moment, the Japanese constitution's makers are trying to amend it, hence a princess could be enthroned as the Japanese Qaisara.
Prince William and Prince Andrew of the Great Britain come from a luxurious family. Just name anything, they could get it. Ironically, to avoid their bored exclusiveness, then they were trying to look for problems, otherwise life are dulled and not creative and innovated to them. Later found that they have involved in free sex and drugs.
Not only them, even some of the Muslim leaders who confesses Allah the Almighty as their God have done the same; especially, leaders from the rich Muslim countries in the Middle East and also South-East Asia. Money makes people forget what actually the functions of humanism, humanity, and humanitarians are. The good values in most of the people life are no more paramount . Social and humanitarian maneuvers are for the non-interest groups and laymen duties and obligations only.
Once a while, comes to my mind, if we do not have any problem, is it okay with us? Hm, do we will be trying to create problems, such as by taking drugs, or get drunk?
Actually, all difficulties and happiness come from Allah. "Sesungguhnya setiap ujian dan kebahagian itu datangnya daripada Allah."